If you have been using the law of attraction, you already know one of the most important steps for things to work for you, is letting go. The law of attraction requires a lot of commitment from you. It is not just about following a bunch of steps, staying positive, citing affirmations and visualizing a few minutes a day.
The law of attraction is supposed to be embraced. Make it your lifestyle.
Letting go is one of the most crucial steps of the law of attraction. But it is also the most difficult step. Many people struggle to let go.
You want a high paying job because you are currently struggling to pay off your debts. You have used the law of attraction, manifested, followed all the necessary steps, and then you are told to let go, forget about your need for the job. How is it possible? How do you let go if it is something you think about daily? How do you want it so much, yet at the same time not want it?
It is hard and paradoxical, but if you can get this art of letting go, you will be able to attract anything you want in life.
While the part where you need to focus on what you want and at the same time let go may be confusing, it is actually a false dichotomy. The two cannot work without one another. They two belong to the same concept that is the law of attraction. And if you can master the two (focus and letting go), the results will be beyond your imagination.
Where Do People Go Wrong?
The major mistake people commit when it comes to the law of attraction is only working on one part- focus on what they want – and then forget or ignore the second part of letting go. Though it is human nature to focus only on what you are lacking rather than where you want to be, this is counterintuitive in the law of attraction.
Owing to the fact that you are a living expression and an extension of the source of energy that controls the Universe, you are very much powerful than you can imagine. And this power can help you create your own life. You are a deliberate creator of your own reality.
But to do this, you need to use the law of attraction correctly.
In many cases where the law of attraction failed, it is because someone didn’t let go.
How to Let Go Like a Pro
Number #1: Know your self-worth
This is what you need to know: if it was meant to be, it will be, and letting go helps you ensure your vibration doesn’t interfere with the process.
It is important to value your self-worth because it is not and will not be defined by any material thing.
You may be trying to attract a relationship, money or any external things, and it easy to get worked up. But one thing is for sure; your self-worth will not be determined by a relationship or your wealth.
If you fixate around the feeling that you need material things to feel better about yourself, then you are going to always experience fluctuations in life where times are bad and time is good.
It will be nice to have what you are wishing for, but you don’t need it. You don’t need a lot of money to feel better, you don’t need acceptance from others, you don’t need these things when letting go.
You want a good relationship, but it will not be the end of the world if you don’t get the person you wanted.
So if you find yourself in a situation where you can go, “I really wish to have a car but I don’t need it right now to feel good about myself and my life,” that is you letting go.
Going back to the basic concept of the law of attraction, which dictates that like attracts like, if you are in a situation or place where you are comfortable with what you have (state of abundance), you will attract more. But if you are in a place where you need things, then you sending out the energy of lack and as a result, the things you want cannot come.
Number #2: It will eventually happen
What you are asking for will eventually happen. You will, at last, have it there is no question about that because the spirit manifests itself perfectly.
Things will go wrong for you. Probably more than they will go right. You will experience many disappointments from all corners of life.
But going back to the first tip, your self-worth should be determined by something from outside otherwise you will be disappointed more.
But one thing you need that these challenges are not here to break you instead they are supposed to teach a lesson. And if you don’t learn anything from them, then you are probably heading in the wrong direction.
Hard times will come but they will not last. They appear to change you. It is through these challenges that you will be able to let go.
Number #3: If it fails, it is because of an ever better thing
One thing about the law of attraction is that if it is not this, it is something even better. You may be thinking that a certain model of a car is what you should have or a job at a certain firm. But if it is not suitable for you, the Universe will not let it happen, and instead, bring about something even better.
So when you have your statements in your diary or on the walls of your bedroom, it is recommended to include “this or something better.”
The spirit will always have a higher interest for you that is going to manifest into your life. Therefore, trust that if you don’t get a job with a certain company, you will get one at a company that offers a better package and has a better working environment.
Whatever you want the universe to send into your life, it is either that or something better than that.
So instead of focusing too much on that thing that you want to manifest into your life, let it go with the belief that you get an even better thing if you don’t get it.
Letting go is a very important part of the law of attraction though many people usually forget or ignore it. I know that it is hard to focus one something and at the same time let it go. It sounds paradoxical but it is the foundation of manifestation. The three steps shared in this article can help you let go and have tremendous success with the law of attraction. If you feel you can’t let go, remember that your self-worth cannot be defined by any external thing and that you don’t need it to be happy at this moment.